• Bad_Ideas_In_Bulk@lemmy.world
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      4 days ago

      Atheism is a religious stance, and is practiced like one. When it’s used to harm non-believers especially it’s really easy to see this.

      I wouldn’t give Christians or any other religion a pass on this, so I’m not giving Atheists one either.

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        No, it’s not.

        Not watching football isn’t a “football stance”.

        Not eating pork chops isn’t a “pork chop stance”.

        Not drinking jagermeister isn’t a “jagermeister stance”.

        Not reading Spider-Man comics isn’t a “Spider-Man stance”.

        Not being religious isn’t a “religious stance”.

        Not doing something isn’t a stance on that something, that’s goofy

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        4 days ago

        Good thing your opinion means jack shit, because your basis is fundamentally flawed and incorrect.

        • Bad_Ideas_In_Bulk@lemmy.world
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          4 days ago

          Do you think it shows weakness to be polite to those you disagree with? I think it works better to approach people with respect if I want them to consider what I’m saying. It already feels like an attack when someone says you’re wrong, and I don’t want to harden minds against what I think is right.

          I’m not always good at it, and I have spoken to people harshly often. It never produced anything but hard feelings on their part. I think it can be satisfying to be mean, and I was looking for an excuse to act in a way that’s less moral without feeling bad about myself. I think even if I was right, I usually didn’t need to be mean about it.

          I think that it’s likely nothing I’m doing on this website is important enough to justify me being unkind about it.

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        4 days ago

        Get back to me when there are “discussion rooms” for practising atheists in public spaces 😆

        • Bad_Ideas_In_Bulk@lemmy.world
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          3 days ago

          If it’s sauce for the goose, it’s sauce for the gander. Whatever your belief of lack of it, I want to see you respected and treated well.

        • Bad_Ideas_In_Bulk@lemmy.world
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          2 days ago

          Thanks.

          If whatever you believe means you feel you have the right to be unkind to people who believe otherwise, it’s problematic. Even if you want to hold onto a different definition of whatever it is you believe, if you use it as an excuse to be unkind it’s still a problem. It’s not the label that’s the problem, it’s the behavior.

          If you end up acting just like them, why should anyone believe you’re any different?

          Very “it’s not a warcrime if it’s not wartime” energy.

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            2 days ago

            Sounds something that a nazi would say.

            It’s the same tolerance paradox. I don’t have to be kind if your “beliefs” create suffering.

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                Text comprehension isn’t your strongest side, is it? But then again, religion has been suppressing education for centuries, so it makes sense.

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                  18 hours ago

                  Though obviously I’d prefer a more civil exchange of ideas I can’t deny the ego boost of seeing someone give up. Once it’s down to name calling, it means you gave up on arguing your point.

                  When people have the faith in their ideas to agree to disagree, they don’t need to resort to name calling. People feel threatened and lash out. It’s understandable.